Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Blog #4: Should teachers be "friends" online to students?

Many people use MySpace and Facebook to socialize online and teachers are no different, but should teachers have current students and former students as "friends".  For those that do not use the two most popular social networks MySpace and Facebook  (This link shows who runs Facebook, check it out!)  According to Kathryn Linder in an article in Faculty Focus, teachers should ask themselves three questions if they are on these sites:

1) How much do you want your students to know about you?
2) How much do want to know about your students?
3) Some students may not use social networking sites?

The first question should be obvious and should be easy to protect since both sites have privacy settings that can be used, but if they are not, students might see pictures or read things from your friends.  In most states teachers have moral codes that they need to follow to keep teaching and in some states thus lines can become blurred because teachers have rights like the public.  In some state the unions have made suggestions to stop teachers from getting fired for inappropreate discussions and post on thier sites.

Moving on to question #2, this is can be a fine line too depending on which type of students you are allowing to view your page.  For current students you should think about things you might see that you don't want to see, like pictures of them drinking or smoking.  I once was shown a page from a coworker that had my some of my students from a couple of years ago drinking and at the time I knew they were underage.  You might start to view them differently. 

Lastly, you must remember some students do not have access to a social network site and if you "friend" one student and not others you might be setting yourself up to favor some students over others.   You might even make comments about the network and make those that don't have a page feel isolated.

The key to being a professional is to set boundaries and explain to the class on the first day what the site is all about and why and how you use it.  Of course, this may vary depending on what level of education you are teaching at.  Currently, at my college there is no policy in place on social network sites and instructors using them.  We do recieve updates on from our adminstration about acting properly and other things to be aware of when socializing with students. 

Teachers also much be aware of former students contacting them and how that will be precieved.  I do not use a FaceBook or MySpace because at this time I feel like I want to keep my privacy to myself and listening to my students talk about it all the time has sort of turned me off it for now.  I do see the positive things that come from them, such as staying in contact with old friends, but I do a pretty good job of this through email.  Plus, if I show and tell them everything online they will never have to visit me in person.  Just kidding.  Let me know what you think by taking my poll or posting a comment. 

6 comments:

  1. This is just my opinion, but I feel teachers shouldn't 'friend' any student they may currently have. This could only cause problems if something should arise. What if you 'friend' one student and not another? Teachers are not only professionals, but we need to be appropriate outside the classroom as well.

    Former students that are of an age where they are mature enough might be something to consider if a teacher wants to 'friend' them.

    Sometimes articles are just articles that are not of much substance. This is one that a professional needs to deem appropriate or not when it comes to social networking with former students.

    Denise

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  2. Thanks Denise for your thoughts. I couldn't agree with you more.

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  3. Kyren, great topic! I just heard a discussion about this on the radio this morning on my way to work. They mentioned that a school board (totally forgot what district but it was in the tri-state area) strongly urged their teachers to not add any students because it could easily open a can of worms. I couldn't agree more! I use both social networking sites (mainly Facebook) and I would not add my students as friends especially if they are current students. I use my Facebook for my personal social life and that is not a place for my students to be. My students are too young to have these sites but their parents do. I have had parents add me in the past and this has made me very uncomfortable. I don't have anything really to hide on my facebook because I don't put up pictures with alcohol or anything like that but I just think my personal social life should remain seperate from my professional life. Would you add a parent if they added you? I have heard some teachers add a past student as a friend and I still don't agree with this because they could have younger siblings and once again they really don't need to know what my friends tell me. The one exception I could understand is if you are friends of your student's family but I think the student would have to be an appropriate age to seperate your professional and personal life and I'm still not 100% sold on that. I would be interested to see teacher's reasoning for adding a student as their friend (maybe I'm missing something???).

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  5. Absolutely, unequivically, explicitly, never under any circimstance should a teacher ever friend current students on social networking sites. It is a terrible idea. It is asking for disaster. You can not possibly maintain an ounce of professionalism if you allow the students you teach into your private life.
    Like you, we had an experience involving students drinking and pictures on Facebook. It led to many kids getting in trouble with the law for under-age drinking. Parents were upset by the way things were revealed. They felt it was all invasion of privacy even though it was all right there on Facebook. That was just simple denial on the parents part, but that is another story. Unforunately, teachers have to adhere to a totally different code of ethics than the rest of the human race and social networking with students is not one of those ethics.

    Elizabeth

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  6. I voted no. Teachers should not use them with students. I have both. Personally, my opinion is that Myspace isn't good and obviously has less morals than Facebook. My family as well as some friends keep in touch on Facebook regularly. This is the only way I would use it, however. My students will not have access to my Facebook or other social networking devices. If they Googled my name, they would come up with my own website, that has a lot of personal pictures, but nothing that oversteps any moral boundaries. I try not to do that in general because of my faith, but what about our students? Do they try to follow a moral code? I don't think they all do. Facebook linking with students may make us take on more of a parenting role than we'd like as teachers. We couldn't ethically let behavior continue if we had evidence of it. It would help long-term, hopefully, but would surely cause strain in the teacher/student relationship if the student thought they were "safe" with sharing their Facebook or Myspace with a teacher. The professional lines would definitely need to be drawn more clearly than that.

    I have thought about creating a Facebook specifically for communication with the students, but we're not allowed to use those sites at our district as it is anyway. So, I'd just have to jump through too many hoops to use it. It's almost akin to handing out hugs to students these days. It's just too weird for people. The last thing I want as a professional teacher is to jeopardize my career, or my teacher/student relationship. Getting personal, or allowing the kids to be too personal with me would potentially destroy the professional boundary and ruin us all. Counselors have specific degrees for that. Teachers have some counseling skills of course, but by design, we are not meant to receive full disclosure of all personal information.

    It's a bad idea to allow kids and teachers to be "friends", but they can be friendly and keep it professional.

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